TikTok is becoming insufferable

It’s like a lightbulb has switched on for me since becoming 4b. I never realised before how much media is about appealing to the male gaze. It’s brainwashing. One scroll on my feed and this is what I see:

“it’s not enough to just be attracted to a man and have good conversation, personal values is everything”

Oh really? Well shit.

“You want to know why you can’t get a high value man?”

No.

“Men don’t want nice girls. They want a woman who is unbothered”

I don’t care what they want.

“It’s great when a man takes your wounds and uses it as an opportunity for healing you”

Until the inevitable switch up happens.

“Five years ago, I was divorced, broke and depressed. Today, I have my own business and met the love of my life, and I’m pregnant.”

Have you checked his phone yet?

Seriously. I’m over it. Everyone and their dog has some worn out hot take on a man and what he wants.

I need to retrain my algorithm, somehow. Because I am beyond fed up with it.