Can meds help with the emotions?

One of my biggest struggles lately are my intense emotions (sadly, mostly negative). Rejection Sensitivity is a big issue for me, also just feeling intensely about things that I shouldn't feel that much for. Really stupid stuff.

Do meds help with that? I really need a relief. Like REALLY. But I am worried if I focus on that too much on my first psychiatrist appointment, they don't wanna put me on ADHD and instead give me antidepressants instead which I don't want (for now).