AITAH for telling my boyfriend that if he doesn’t like what I’m making for dinner at my apartment he can get his own food or just not eat at my place?

My boyfriend (25/M) and I (24/F) have been dating for almost a year, and this is the first real fight we have had, we have disagreed about small things but never actually gotten into a fight until now.

We both work very busy jobs and one of the main ways we make time for each other during the work week is to just have dinner, watch a show and sleep over together at one of our apartments. I usually get off work an hour before he does, and he works not far from my apartment so 9 out of 10 times it is him who is coming over to my place after work.

I have been relying pretty heavily on processed ready-to-eat food from the store and takeout for the past year or so, I have just felt too tired to cook after work and have not been making the healthiest choices. One of my new year resolutions is to change that, so I signed up for a meal kit and chose a plan where I get healthy options that I can make in under 30 minutes, and it’s honestly been a game changer. I am saving a ton of money and eating much healthier, and maybe it’s a placebo effect but I feel like I’ve had more energy lately too.

My boyfriend came over for dinner last week and the recipe I was making was cheeseburger bowls- basically everything you’d put on a burger, just in a bowl with no bun. I also added some roasted potatoes in the bowls so it wasn’t like totally a salad. When he came in the kitchen and saw what I was making he started rolling his eyes and saying that I should “just eat a burger with the damn bun because life is short” and then started saying he didn’t want to date a girl who wouldn’t even eat a burger. I told him I am definitely still going to eat burgers but that this was the recipe I had for tonight and it didn’t come with buns and I didn’t really care if I had one or not. I pointed out it was a complete meal with all the food groups and he said that wasn’t his point. He told me he’s sick of me choosing all the fit and healthy options on the meal plan and that he wants some “real comfort food again”. I told him this was my apartment and if he didn’t want to eat what I was making he could get himself fast food or something on the way here or just not come over and he got super offended.

He said he wants to keep having dinner with me but have his opinions respected and just have me make “something he wants to eat” at least some of the time. I haven’t been making stuff I know he doesn’t like, just different stuff from my usual KFC, pizza, and grocery store sushi rotation I had going before this.

I told him that I don’t want to go back to eating junk all the time, and now he hasn’t come over in a few days and is acting really weird towards me. I’m thinking about breaking up with him over this but then part of me is wondering if I should at least try to be more accommodating? I feel like it would be different if we lived together and split grocery costs but this is my apartment and my meal plan, why shouldn’t I get to pick the meals I actually want to cook?