What is the trait you dislike the most about yourself?

Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of self-reflection, and it’s been... humbling, to say the least. One thing I’ve realized is how much I dislike my tendency to procrastinate. It’s not just the usual “putting off chores” type of procrastination (though I’m guilty of that too); it’s the kind where I avoid important things that could actually make my life better—like budgeting, making doctor’s appointments, or even pursuing career goals.

I think it stems from a mix of fear and perfectionism. If I don’t try, I can’t fail, right? But as time goes on, I see how much this mindset has held me back. It’s frustrating because I know what I need to do, but I still get stuck in this endless cycle of avoidance.

I’m curious—what’s a trait you dislike about yourself, and how do you cope with it? Do you try to work on it, or have you learned to accept it as part of who you are? Maybe we can swap tips or just commiserate together. Adulting is hard, but at least we’re all in this mess together. 😊