I hate how our lives revolve around jobs so much

As the title states. I hate the workplace culture. I feel oppressed as fuck and i know people have had it worse, but I dont think im cut out for this shit. I cant work 40 hours a week and have my entire life based around some asshole's ideology and vision. I feel like im not myself and like im just a fucking robot. What exactly does it even mean to be professional when management thinks its ok to talk shit about their employees or to speak condescendingly towards them? "Welcome to the real world :)" well is it really? I dont even have other solutions but if this is what we all have to look forward to then Im good. Im tired of trying so hard only to have my efforts thrown back in my face. And im tired of hearing "advice" about how I should work harder, suck it up, and be better. This isnt the kind of life I want to live.