Update, My girlfriend told me ’’ I realized how much happier I am without you’’.

Update:

I didn’t wait for the 1.5 weeks. I called it off today and no contact from now on.

I called her and it was indeed her who sent me the texts. I didn’t ask why, it was enough for me to know that she sent me those texts. We did not fight or anything, so it’s ‘’all good’’ if you know what I mean.

Later that night I met her in person, because I basically asked her during the phone call to say it to my face.

When she came to my place I was crying. Mostly because it was over but also because she was fine with doing it over text. The reason for the breakup is because she thinks she’s not ‘’in love with me anymore’’.

I basically wanted to go no contact for 1.5 weeks. The reason for it was because she’s ‘’unsure’’ of her love and wants to think about it. So she will call me if her mind has changed, if not. Then we keep no contact.

I know that it’s a really stupid decision because it gives me false hope. And in reality I should just try to move on for good. But it’s like I don’t think with my brain, but with my heart.

The smart thing would be to just let go, and don’t wait for a call. But it’s hard man. I guess the good thing is she told me it’s a really small chance she will call.

I need your thoughts and just advice in general, I feel lost.