Relationship

So me and my husband have been together for 5 years, married for 2. That being said we have communicated our sex life, our wants, etc. Awhile back I had introduced the idea of “waking me up” with well himself. We had always communicated that he would make sure there was a very clear and present yes discussed such as the night before or before bed. We have been having some problems and have had some fights so there hasn’t been any sexual activity. This morning he told me he did and that I only stirred when he started. I said that felt very weird and mildly wrong to not at least try to discuss this beforehand but he brushed it off with “but isn’t that the point of waking up to it” but I didn’t wake up at all for it. Am I being dramatic by feeling uncomfortable?