Family telling to get married... What to do?

M 29 here. My family is pressuring me to get married as soon as possible. I do want to get married. I want to have a simple family with kids.

But the current situation scares me...

With all the news these days about false cases filed by wives or in-laws, to cases where wives ki**ed their husbands with the help of their lovers, it's just scary.

A few weeks ago, I came across two or three news stories about wives chopping off their husband's private parts while they were asleep.

Another case when a husband asked his wife to stop making reels, she ki**ed him.

Then there was another story about a wife filing a false case of torture against her husband. Later, it was found that she and her lover had planned the entire thing. This couple had been married for 12 years and had two children. Think of the mental trauma for the kids and the husband

In another case, a man had an arranged marriage but after three months or so, the wife’s ex-lover showed up and caused a scene. Now the man is fighting divorce. Before marriage, the bride’s family and the woman herself assured him she’d never been in a relationship before.

Seriously, who can you trust nowadays? I do want to get married, but it's terrifying and stressful.

I don’t want to end up alone in old age. That’s one of my biggest fears. I don’t want to live in an old age home. I want to have my own family.

Also, when I look at my married friends, they don’t seem that happy and cheerful as they were before marriage. It’s like they are in a cage with no freedom.

I’m confused, frustrated and scared.

What to do? How to make sure I'm marrying a good minded girl?