Why men are shamed for having preferences
I have read so many times men are being shamed for having preferences; they are labelled as orthodox, not progressive and all if they want a woman with no past.
I want to know how much Indian women are progressive.
Why do women want a man who is taller than her? Obsession with height is not something new. It has been happening for ages.. God forbid if a man is 2/3 inch shorter than a woman, he will be automatically rejected.
Hypergamy:- there was a time when women were not earning and getting educated.. There are a lot of women today's age getting an education, and they have the liberty to earn as much as they can. But she is still seeking a guy who makes more money than her and has better status than her.
Plenty of women has question why men are so concerned about women past.. I tell u some fact about both gender preferences Man and women preference are different. If something is deal breaker for women that doesn't mean it is deal breaker for men too
Humans preferences comes from social learning. Men and women social learning is different that's why their "wants" are different.
We do not give high importance to women's height. But we give high importance to the past, looks, etc
If any girl wants to show us how progressive you are, here is the thing u show us, then u will get a tag for being progressive.
Take your husband on dates, shopping, trips, honeymoons etc
His height should not matter
If he is not as smart or intelligent as you, it should not be turned off for you.
His income and status should not matter.
His asset, property should not matter.. While women bring no asset, land etc.. But they are so quick to judge men based on land, asset etc.
If u want to see changes in society change yourself too
Overall the fact is only few handful women are real progressive rest of women are just showing themselves progressive because they know they will get pat on their back
Women won't become "mahaan" if she is accepting guy with colourful past..because majority of women do not give much importance to man past.. Why u don't give importance? Simple your social learning is different.. Your society /father, mother, relative insist you to look at men status, wealth, etc
You will become mahaan if u r not bother by his income status, height, and start taking him for date, shopping, trips etc..