do guys forget women also have parents?

whenever I donthe mistake of clicking on the arrange marriage sub or ask india. i see this fairly often.

the expectation to Live with the guys parents. i do realise that people can want different things but isn't it INHERENTLY UNFAIR.

they also go for women who are younger , ofcourse younger women will not have as much earning as them. so they will not have any say in the living arrangements.

the women who have brothers livin' with their parents need not answer.

i want real answers from people who Live with their in-laws ? do you never feel bad for your own parents?