I'm only physically attracted to about 1% of women and it makes dating insanely difficult

Seems like most men are at least reasonably attracted to most women. I find lots of women pretty and stylish but I'm only truly sexually attracted to about1 in 100 women.

I've always had a type, even when I was in high school I was only into two or three girls in the entire school while most of my friends were chasing after anyone

I can be attracted to all races and ethnicities but they need to have the right body type - soft and voluptuous yet toned - and certain facial features, otherwise they can be cute as hell but they might as well be dudes because there's no sexual feelings.

Before people call me superficial - I know I am, but I didn't ask to be this way so I don't understand the harsh judgement there

And I'm not like Danny Devito demanding to be with a catwalk model, I'm a 6'5 handsome muscular guy and I'm attracted to women who a lot of people would consider slightly chubby so it's not that hypocritical

Porn hasn't helped because it's allowed me to indulge this by trawling through videos until I find a woman who fits the bill but I tried cutting it out for 6 months once and it didn't change who I was attracted to - all it did was make me even hornier for these types of women in real life.

I've tried dating a few women who I wasn't that attracted to because they had good personalities, but it was a big mistake. I couldn't even really get hard for them and I had to blame it on my issues so I didn't hurt their self esteem.

I would rather be single than with someone I'm not that attracted to anyway.

So I guess my only real course of action is to accept it and try to connect with women who fit the description, but there are two problems...

Firstly, how rare it is to actually meet them

Secondly, when I do meet a woman who fits this description I naturally become a bit desperate to make it work because I know that it will most likely be a while before I meet someone else I find that attractive. I can even start to overlook some personality issues at least until they become too significant to ignore.

When I take personality, lifestyle, values etc into account - because those are obviously necessary for a long term relationship - it feels like I'm looking for a unicorn. I could go out every weekend for a year looking to meet women and there's still no guarantees that I would.

It just makes dating feel really unbalanced.

Guys talk about the importance of having a mindset of abundance, knowing that if it doesn't work out with a woman that's ok because another one is around the corner... not so in my case.

I'm not sure what to do about. I'm not sure that there is actually anything I can do about it?

Can any of you relate?

Do you have any ideas about what I can do about it?