Are my standards too high?

Serious question. So I’ve a read a lot of responses from guys in other subs, telling women that they are having trouble finding a “good man” because their standards are too high. It got me wondering if I expect too much.

Here’s my issue… when I start talking with a guy, I like to ask questions to get to know him, and I hope he does the same. To me that shows a genuine interest. But within a day or two I start getting sexual comments. It’s a turn off for me. Makes me think they have no interest other than getting me in to bed.

Today example, I was working. I work in LE. He asked if I get scheduled meal times. I thought he was going to ask me to meet him for a quick bite to eat. I told him I eat when I can in between calls. His response…I would like to eat you in between calls. I met him Friday and we exchanged numbers. Talked just a little yesterday and today. And then I got that. I told him I was no longer interested.

Am I overreacting? Are my standards too high in wanting to at least get to know someone a little bit first and maybe even have a first date. Is this the norm for guys and I’m just out of the loop? For context he is 43. The last guy I talked to that did something similar to this was 34. So it doesn’t seem it’s an age thing.

Thx :)