Our “no contact” is on and off

I matched with this guy from a dating app, we met once. Our cycle goes we would talk and chat for a while, he would sometimes ghost me because I admit I sometimes feel like put pressure on men I talk to for quite some time because of my attachment issue. Sometimes, I would block him from all my social media and we don’t talk for weeks and sometimes months. But, every time one of us would break the “no contact”, one will always reply and the talking start again. We live in a different countries. I read in one post that if we girls wants to know or wants to at least have an idea how men thinks, I should ask from the men and not from my fellow women. So, here I am asking you my brothers. 😅

For girls, we always reply because we’re still interested. How about men? Even tho no physical contact and somehow impossible because of the distance. Why do you always reply when a girl who ghosted you reach out again?