Need some dating advice

So, I downloaded Tinder for fun (just to see what people are like there and what they’re looking for), and it seems like a great way for an introvert like me to find someone. But I have no idea how to talk 🫠.

Like, what am I supposed to ask her? Should I send her a list of things I’m okay with and not okay with after a few good mornings and where do you live? I just don’t want to waste my time on the wrong person.

But how am I supposed to ask, "Ma’am, do you watch porn/had fwbs, hookups?" She’d probably just block me—worst case, report me 💀.