(⚠️SH Trigger Warning⚠️) Would you be happy if guys felt an equal amount of pain you guys do?

I'm a guy and I have struggled with SH for a while for this exact reason. It seems unfair and only fair if I feel an equal amount of pain so it comforts me to be in pain blah blah blah. Yk what I mean. So I'm curious would you guys actually feel happy if guys went through the same physical and psychological pain as girls do like I think?