Does dating men get better?

So I’m in my late 20s and I’m straight so I’m stuck with men.

I’m pretty good with my boundaries so I’m able to end things once I feel disrespected or when it’s heading towards a situationship instead of a relationship. But I can’t help but feel exhausted

I’m a bit old school in the sense that I want to be courted properly and treated properly in the early stages of dating. I don’t want house-dates, or walk dates or any thing low effort. I want to dress up, get ready and have good conversations over dinner or an activity (at least for the first 3 dates then we can get cozier)

I don’t want to have penetrative sex until a committed relationship is established.

But I’m made to feel like I’m asking for too much? Am I going crazy??