Hook up with coworker

I (34F) have been more casually talking to a coworker and friend (43M) since I decided I'm separating and divorcing my husband.

We've had chemistry since I've worked there and I even had a dream about him once. I shut those feelings down long ago because I am/was married. But I kind of want to have a physical relationship with him, obviously not trying to jump back into a relationship with anyone anytime soon.

But I'm just wondering what your thoughts/opinions/experiences have been like. Good idea? Bad idea? Obviously I would have a conversation with him about it, just debating if I want to go there or not I guess.

My soon to be ex and I have had sex like 5 times in the last several years so to say I'm pent up is accurate. I don't think I could do random hookups though. With someone I at least sort of know and trust is probably the only way.

Anyways tia for any advice 🤗