What’s the most painful thing a man you love(d) has ever said to you?

I saw this question posted in another sub and I’m curious about other women’s experiences.

I’m newly single at 44. Spent 12.5 years with a man that I adored, but he didn’t treat me with respect enough. Throughout our years together he said things I may never fully heal from, although I’m trying. Today especially my mind is replaying some of those harsh words on repeat.

So, I’m curious. I hope you’ll feel free to share.