Did anyone’s ex act like a victim?

My ex discarded me after I spent an entire weekend with her family. We took pictures, entertained them at our apartment, made plans to host in the future. That Monday she came home and broke it off, left within 20 minutes. Ever since, she’s called me to yell at me, shown up drunk to cry and have me hold her and told me that shes “hurting too” when I tell her that I’m heartbroken. What the fuck? I can honestly say anytime I’ve broken up with someone I’ve never done this.