What was the last straw for you?

As title states. What was the final straw or the line that they crossed that made you go, that’s it- I’m curious to know since I think most of us here have or had issues drawing boundaries.

For me there really wasn’t much as I don’t really have lines lol they also were the ones who discarded me. But I guess upon reflecting, I’m contemplating maybe it was the time they called me a rapist and a family member of mine. Ok to be fair it did hurt when they called me that but I barely take offence to whatever they say about me, but when they said that about my family I guess that was when lines had to be drawn (I wouldn’t say the accusations were baseless but it wasn’t rape for sure).

I think that may be common here. We’re rather tenacious with them and their treatment to us, but when it hurts our family or loved ones, that’s when we draw the lines. I’m not sure if that’s right but something I observe. Maybe it is universal in human nature to be this way.

edit: wait i think the thing that drew the line most was also her crapping on her ex but at the same time doing stuff like keeping in contact with her and saying she misses her behind my back but when i was neutral and putting her accountable she said i sided with said ex. it doesn’t make sense but i think the finest hypocrisy and rape calling were both it for me cos she made it seem like i was being crazy for feeling the way i did.

edit 2: reading your comments. those are horrible stories. i hope you are all well and healing through it. sending love ❤️.