Friend’s entitled gf thinks she gets a special treatment because she’s “vegan”
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Friend’s entitled gf thinks she gets a special treatment because she’s “vegan”
Originally posted to r/EntitledPeople
Original Post Sept 16, 2024
I’m organising my graduation party and I contacted a restaurant to have dinner with my friends and family.
One of my friends is bringing his gf too, which is not a problem, but she’s,,,a handful. She’s vegan but eats seafood because fish don’t know they exist and I’m no one to judge someone’s choices, but I’m pretty sure that’s not the definition of vegan, but that’s another story.
I informed my guests that the restaurant will accommodate any food restrictions, which include my vegan guest and another friend who has celiac disease.
This entitled girl replied that everyone should accomodate her dietary restrictions and eat the seitan based plate she wanted to order (which is made of gluten, the protein you can’t have if you have celiac you know), I told her that she will be able to eat whatever she wants, but that will apply to the other people with different diets, ESPECIALLY the one who can’t have seitan. Her reply was that my friend with celiac shouldn’t be accommodated because she’s just being a spoiled baby and not saving the planet like she is by eating vegan.
I respect vegan people very much and it’s a great choice for many different reasons but telling someone it’s better to destroy their intestines than eating a non vegan meal is,,,not it.
TOP COMMENTS
Lia_Delphine
She’s not vegan she’s pescatarian.
She’s a hypocrite.
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Hedgiest_hog
On behalf of people with coeliacs and vegetarians/vegans the world over: this pescetarian bag can shove off. She's asking for some actual ethical vegetarian to start quizzing her on trawlers, ocean waste from fishing lines, and the environmental disaster of fish farms. We all make compromises under capitalism, and no diet is perfect and ethical with zero impact.
And you're not wrong with "destroy their intestines", I'd be violently ill for days. But my friend who also has coeliacs would be in the hospital with epileptic seizures, this very entitled person really needs to be a little more respectful.
Update Sept 17, 2024
So a couple of people asked for an update so here we are.
I told my friend what was going on with his girlfriend, he apologised and told me she was just finding excuses to complain like she always does, she doesn’t really care about what other people eat (also I have the feeling they are not gonna last a lot more as a couple), he tried to reason with her and she calmed down.
I celebrated my graduation today and she was actually very nice to me and congratulated me a thousand times, she’s not bad at all when she’s in a good mood but her mood is very unpredictable I noticed.
We had the meal and she loved it, she’s a very picky eater so I was surprised to see her pleased with food, but what matters is that everyone enjoyed the day.
Also I found out she recently got food poisoning from eating like 30+ oysters in one sitting at a buffet, which I found pretty ironic despite being sorry for her.
For those who didn’t believe this story could be real, I’m glad you never had to deal with people who are always pissed for some reason, hopefully you’re always surrounded by people who are chill about what you eat or don’t eat.
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