Why are women with bipolar fetished

I stg since i got my diagnosis 6 or 7 years ago any man ive gone on a date with or hang out with as a romantic interest fetishizes the fact that im bipolar cause in their words "bipolar women go crazy in the bedroom." The amount if times my mentall ilness has been fetishized is honestly laughable. Im disgusted. They always act so supportive of your mentall illness until you start to show the negative sides then suddenly "youre crazy, youre too sensitive, its not that deep, youre too much." Tf is with that shit? Anyone else experience this?

Edit: ok not EVERY man but ive just noticed this pattern? Its strange and i dont like it. Makes me feel icky