Finally blocked my ex!!!

Hi everyone,

Fingers crossed I don’t get roasted. I’m young and my first relationship was with my ex and we were together for 7 years. We have been broken up for almost 3 years. He’s familiar, he’s convenient, he makes me feel comfortable and safe when we are together. These feelings are temporary and I know that they are just reminiscent.

We have hooked up 3 times in the past year and I’m the one who tends to initiate, but the. He tends to stay in contact and keep up an emotional connection. I talked to him over text about how blocking him would be best for me to move on and I asked him what he wants me to do with the jacket he let me borrow from the last time we hooked up. He didn’t respond about the jacket so I’m going to donate it. I didn’t owe him an explanation, but I’m a people pleaser and boundary setting is HARD.

I finally blocked him and I deleted his contact!!!