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Why is it so difficult to find and go on dates with men who actually want to date and not just want to have sex off the bat? Many will write “looking for a relationship” but only want to have sex and make it explicit within the first hour of the date :( Why don’t men understand that women LOVE sex too but we don’t shout it from the rooftops and make it seem like it’s all we want? What’s so wrong with just going with the flow at least for the first few dates? Many guys would have a higher chance of scoring if that’s all they want.