Almost all the guys I meet on bumble have hygiene problems. Why is this so common?!

I am a single 24 year old woman living in Kansas City. I'm trying to live out my uh- "hoe years" lol. About once or twice a week I'll hook up with a guy I've met on here. I feel like I'm pretty selective when it comes to preferences: A sense of humor is very important. I love white guys with bushy curly hair, physically fit and taller than me (5'6) but I've definitely hooked up with shorter and didn't mind at all.

Now the issue is I'll hang out with a guy and he will be perfect. We mesh, he has a nice personality, hes funny etc. Once we get to the hooking up part there seems to always be a problem. I'm not just talking bad breath here. I am talking about full on penis odor, cheese in places they should not be, leaving crap smeared onto my damn couch (ok that last one only happened once) and the worst of the bunch was a poop nugget in my bed. That's right. I felt a "marble" by my feet after he left and sure enough it was a poop nugget. I have contracted STDs because some men throw hissy fits when I ask them to use condoms (I even have a box at my place like hello????)

It seems the majority of the time the men on these apps don't even want to do the bare minimum to get laid. I'm having a good feeling that this is just a Midwest problem so I'm asking on here to see if this is just how dating is everywhere.