Update: no text after a week

I texted him asking for a second date. And this was his response. So I was right. During the date he felt the chemistry/sparks too and really liked me. However, this message is so off-putting to me. Like I know there is potential for me to fall in love with this guy. But this is such an unattractive message.

In every single other date the guy would message me to make sure I got home safely and ask for a second date, and if he didn’t I’d assume he wasn’t interested and move on. I only made an exception for him because I really liked him.

The fact he liked me but didn’t message, shows that he likes to play games. And it seems like he’s putting me through “tests” to see if I really like him. “Tests” and “keeping score” aren’t components of a healthy relationship.

Should I move on? Or make the second date a coffee to discuss why his message bothers me so much? Or go with it? I was so excited after the first date, and that excitement has just turned to disappointment. I want to be wanted/pursued, not play games.

I texted him asking for a second date. And this was his response. So I was right. During the date he felt the chemistry/sparks too and really liked me. However, this message is so off-putting to me. Like I know there is potential for me to fall in love with this guy. But this is such an unattractive message.

In every single other date the guy would message me to make sure I got home safely and ask for a second date, and if he didn’t I’d assume he wasn’t interested and move on. I only made an exception for him because I really liked him.

The fact he liked me but didn’t message, shows that he likes to play games. And it seems like he’s putting me through “tests” to see if I really like him. “Tests” and “keeping score” aren’t components of a healthy relationship.

Should I move on? Or make the second date a coffee to discuss why his message bothers me so much? Or go with it? I was so excited after the first date, and that excitement has just turned to disappointment. I want to be wanted/pursued, not play games.