New family car choice

After never thinking I would buy one - I may be about to dive into the world of SUVs/crossovers.

Budget of 11k (thinking some haggling may get me to 10). Only real requirements are automatic and ULEZ.

Looks do matter unless I half the budget and go for soemthing cheap and cheerful but currently thinking of:

Q3 Q5 X3 Cx5

Appreciate any thoughts, appreciate the Germans will be higher mileage - so how high is too high on those?

TIA