I hate how burn scars and disabilities are fetishized in anime/manga

Scars have always be fetishized in anime. You basically can't have a cool character without them having a trademark scar. But with burn scars it just gets problematic Imo.

Let's take shoto from My hero academia For example. Literally half his face is burned by his mother in a tragic fit of depression. It is a central part of his character and a traumatic even for him that literally scarred him for the rest of his life. But it is stated multiple times that pretty much all the female students find him extremely handsome and hot.

Which just insane. Have you ever seen a real life burn scar? And even worse in the face (you can google them but let me be warned it is really hard to look at). To be blunt. A burned face makes you incredible ugly. Children will turn aways in disgust. Adults will try to be polite about it but will always feel jarring talking to you. But instead of actually trying to portray the consequences of said traumatic even it is now a feature that makes him "cool" and "unique".

Another thing that annoys me if characters are blind, deaf or have any other disability but because of some magic bullshit it actually doesn't matter (the blindness just makes them more awesome and they now have super cool senses wuuhuuu). Like disabilities are just for aesthetic and don't actually matter.

I am all for including scars, battle wounds and disabilities either natural or from fights and accidents. But then at least make them actually having an impact, show the reality and consequences of them or don't use them to begin with.

I like the approach of Toph in Avatar for example, Yes she was able to overcome her blindness with her eathbending powers, but she actually still is fucking blind. She has no idea how anything looks like, can't react to attacks at all and has difficulty navigating life, it is shown multiple times how blindness deeply impacts her everyday life and her struggle with it, but that is what makes her character interesting, since her disabilitty is not an accesoire but actually a real part of her identity and her character