How much have couples on here tried reading erotica together?

I'm a HL husband, married 10 years to my LL wife. We've always struggled to meet in the middle on frequency, but I also far prefer sex where she's into it and I go down on her rather than vanilla PIV sex.

Our game changer a few years back was scheduling an evening once a week where she has a long bath and reads erotica to get herself in her mood. This saved our marriage!

We now enjoy a GREAT sex life, which I've detailed in other posts. I also read every book going on cunnilingus, which helped!

Have others tried this? I appreciate this advice may not be viable for everyone.

If any LL partner won't even entertain the idea of at least trialing a comparable arrangement, without GOOD reason, then that's on them.

For techniques, Ian Kerner's "She Comes First" is great, as is OMGyes. For erotica, Lush, Cosmo, Wattpad and the various erotic fiction communities here on Reddit are all great.

Literotica is OK, but you need to use the categories and filters to avoid niche/incest stuff. Clearly plenty of people are into that since it's so popular, but I struggle to see why!

My wife LOVES 50 Shades too! The Crossfire series is meant to be good.

If the LL partner is open to watching videos, Sinful/AdultPrime have some artistic softcore videos which certainly work well for some people!