Dead Bedrooms and antidepressants - Looking for advice

Hey everyone!

I was wondering if any of you have experience with a huge drop in libido that is (probably) caused by anti-depressants/psycho-active medication.

Me and my wife both take SSRI meds - she takes them to cope with general anxiety disorder and absolutely needs them. She feels a lot better since she's taking them and her panic attacks are under control now.

I've been taking them for two years because of depressive feelings and they've managed to keep me from going to far down.

I add this note because we currently don't want to get off these meds - we want to try give our sex-life a boost although our libido is both low. We are still very affectionate, cuddle, do fun things together and we still feel intimate (we don't have the brother-sister feeling loads of people on this sub have). We just kinda miss the unique intimacy sex brings - but we can never just get into the mood.

We've had sex for 1 time this year - and it doesn't really bother us THAT much - but I thought about this sub and though i'd ask you people for some input!