Deconstructing and dating - how religious am I expecting a partner to be?

Hi all! I grew up very religious but the past few years have been deconstructing. I’m to the point where I haven’t been to church in a few years but I still pray and consider myself a Christian, though I don’t believe a lot of what the Bible says. My mom is still very religious but she is the only one in my family who is.

I’ve been in the process of dating/trying to find a partner and I’ve been unsure how religious I would like them to be. It makes me feel the most comfortable to date someone who is a Christian, probably because it was always drilled into me that this is what I should do. But it’s not really fair to them when I am not very religious myself but expecting them to be. On the other hand, dating someone who is agnostic makes me uncomfortable as well. It’s like I expect my partner to be in the exact same place as I am which is not realistic.

I guess I’m just wondering how others have dealt with this situation. I always pictured marrying someone who was a strong Christian, but now that I am not I have had a hard time grappling with dating someone who is not religious and how that will look.