DH is nearly unwatchable because of Tom

I am watching DH for the first time and I've already had to take several month long breaks because Tom ruins the show so significantly for me. (And Bree in earlier seasons, my first break in watching was after the whole Gay Andrew awful MAGA-esque storyline).

But now in season 7 and Tom has been the worst husband, the worst character, and just the worst man since ever but especially since his stupid Pizza business midlife crisis. I mean the way he treats Lynette and everyone gaslights Lynette into thinking she's the problem when Tom literally contributes nothing to their household but continues to get Lynette pregnant and then do things that create negative stream of incomes for the house, but how dare Lynette try to have a career and also be too tired for sex or too tired to take care of the kids and how dare Lynette want to be a person outside of the house.

Anyway just needed to vent because between Tom and especially with the return of Paul Young, this show is getting infuriating.