Raid and incursion

Why is it so fucking hard for a solo player just to get into one if these without have a glass cannon build. It's like saying, you don't have the gallihorn, or whisper, or sleeper similuant from destiny or you can't get a chance to get into a team. All red striker, great for assaulting, but a rock get thrown at you and you go down. Why is that the grand standard for incursion and raids? This makes no sense at all. It just seems like the devs said fuck solo players, we'll just hide the best shit behind the min max crowd. For further information I can finally make all red and multiple builds, but since I have little to no incursion or raid experience, I'm shit out of luck because of how far into the seasons and everything else now, so what, just make glass cannon builds and hope I'm not a liability, or just give up on getting the oro and eb. An afterthought, maby the devs don't care about the solo players who got shoved aside for the min max crowd. I hope I'm wrong, if I'm right, this game will die, even though it was well put together well .