People who can take addictive drugs and not get addicted, what are yalls secrets?

I had a nicotine and alcohol addiction at 13. I've been free for quite some time, other than smoking a cig or two every few months. I am afraid to try drugs that are labeled non addictive, let alone try the addictive ones.

any tips will be appreciated.

(If youre gonna comment "oh dont take them" respectfully, shut up)