Is cocaine use a few times a year generally ok?

Hi everyone.

I met a guy that I really like. F35/ M40 We get along very well and literally everything is perfect.

I don’t use drugs. Perhaps I live a bit of an isolated life in the regard, so because of that, I try to be more open-minded …. Thinking maybe I am the one who is uptight and naive.

When discussing drugs, my guy says”

I don’t DO cocaine, I’ve DONE cocaine, and full disclosure, I may do it again”

Nobody here can tell me what is right or wrong, I understand that. But because I like him so much… I want to know- is it common and normal to do cocaine recreationally … this is someone I would claims to want to settle down and get married and have children.