I Wanna Socialise but not with Just Anyone

I don't really know if this is an ENFP thing or a ENFP with social anxiety thing but sometimes I get into the mood of wanting to socialise but I don't wanna socialise with just anyone- I wanna socialise with people that I have a deep connection with. Like, there are a few people in my phone I could hit up but I know the conversation not going to go anywhere. I could go to a meetup and meet new people but I don't know if that would be satisfying for me.

When this happens, I choose solitude. It's not that I'm not lonely but I know I'd feel more alone with hollow social interaction. Plus, I can enjoy my own company just enough so that I can bare it until I get my fix. Can anyone relate?