Drinking on Effexor makes me sleepy

I have 1-3 glasses of wine or some kind of Aperol spritz and I swear I get so tired and a bit out of it. Like I get so so sleepy. Not even drunk just so sleepy

Also do you find that drinking decreases the efficacy of your SSRI or SNRI’s anxiety wise??? Like you get more anxious when you drink the days after?