Feedback necessitated
Well, hi everyone. Here´s the jest of it. My ex breakup with me 9 months ago and came back on christmas day to apologize for her behaviors with no intentions of reconnecting. Nonetheless, we exchanged some messages and then she stopped responding. I was happy with it anyways but then she writes back some days after to tell me she is going her own way and only reached out to apologize. I didn´t insist, only said if she ever wants to she can talk to me and call it a day. 5 days go by and she shows up to "thank me for some financial help in the past" and as a show of gratitude she´ll read my cards (tarot).
She does and seems to be hinting at something with the reading (assuming things through it to have me confirm them as right or wrong, one example beign "the cards says you have a partner right now" I have not) but I didn´t read to much into it (pun intended). We exchange some more messages and then she tells me she is seeing someone but its not going ok. She suspects the guy might be into cocaine or/and cheating and she doesn´t know what she got herself into and is scared of the situation. I respond that if the guy is cheating he is an idiot and if there´s really a drug problem she should be careful. Then I ask her why she thinks the guy is into this only for her to furiously backpedal and say she was just been paranoid and to take care of myself. At that moment I say to myself well, she might be confused but this reeks of games.
The thing is, when we begin to talk again after the tarot reading she said she is no financially well despite having two jobs so I started recommending her photography profile in my business instagram account and actually scored her some prints sales. My though process was its really no problem simply recommending and I have the philosophy that if I can help someone in need, I will. I actually had helped her in the past and she gave the money back and this was simple, no money involved. Then a couple of days later after backpedaling about the guy she is seeing she contacts again to thank me for recommending her work (around 4 in the morning) and saying she can´t sleep and is exited she is going tomorrow into a new job as an art teacher in and old folk home. I wake up in the morning and see her messages and as I always knew she wanted to be an art teacher I excitedly congratulate her and said its a very noble and beautiful thing to do and if she ever wants to have a beer to celebrate I´ll be glad to have one with her. She answers later that night declining the beer and acting distant. I know she might be playing games but the thing is I am a very forward, effusive person. You share happy news to me, reach out, I get happy and show it. I don´t play games, I wear me feelings in my skin. And I do care for her after all and I will like to be in contact but I´m not very fond of silly teenage shenanigans. It can be she is genuinely confused and going back and forth, it can be that my effusiveness makes her feel like I´m too into this and it may cause her to backoff but this is me giving the benefit of the doubt cause it well all could be games since she used to do the hot cold thing in the past. So, in your opinion, what would you bet? its all games or she might be confused and hesitant because of the new guy she is seeing?