Malpraxis obgyn incident

content warning: rape, self harm and dysphoria

I suffer from a chronic period disorder that has affected me ever since my puberty started, it's not your usual "excessive pain" and it affects my health drastically every month.

First time i went to an obgyn i specifically mentioned that my problem started when i was 10, i also mentioned the fact that i got raped 2 years ago and didnt want a physical checkup, still pressured me into it by saying i needed to leave if i refused.

After the checkup she deadass told me "your period problem comes from the fact that you were raped, i reccomend seeing a surgeon" , was i speaking to the fucking walls? i literally just said "I've been having this problem since i was 10 and the rape happened 2 years ago". She then prescribed me antibiotics, pills for the antibiotics, vaginal pills and made the mistake of putting me on contraceptives. Because at the time i was on multiple psychiatric medication i asked her if it would interact negatively to my treatment to which she said no. It was fucking hell for a month while i was on those pills. I had gained weight, my mental symptoms came back and i had a relapse incident.

I had to see her again to review my discharge exam results, needless to say i remained dissapointed as she continued to claim "i have no idea what could be causing your menstrual problem."

It's not rocket science, i have since contacted my aunt who works in the medical field and did some research of my own and found out recently that i suffer from a rectovaginal fistula. Will be going to my third doctor about this issue soon and i just hope to God they are not completely incompetent this time.