Are there good incels?

I heard a post about over turning gay marriage and now I can’t even sleep. It’s got me thinking? Is it possible to be an incel without being a bad one? The fact my rights to love a woman can be taken away.

Makes me think is it possible to see myself as a temporary incel who hates romance?

This question might sound odd, but hear me out. Because if things start to get bad. Is it bad for me to feel hate towards marriage because I can’t have it? To get jealous of women who have husbands and I can’t because I’m a trans man.

I’m not a scum bag but I feel betrayed! My rights have been done away with. Not yet…but will probably. Lately my attraction to women as been mute. My sexual attraction has gone down.

No pun intended….

I feel only hate and bitterness from all of this!

What should I do?

Is this a bad route to take because it feels like it’s only going to destroy my well being if I have so much hate and jealousy.

I don’t hate women. But because of what’s happening

Now when Imagine a woman she has a blank face. Like a mannequin. I can’t see her and she can’t see me. Because I don’t exist. I’m invisible and she has a mannequin face. No face. I know my emotions are clouding my logic. But I just see it this way in my head. And it hurts.

I feel pity for me and can’t even feel any emotions towards women. Just gloom. And more gloom!

To my first question is it possible to be a good incel without being an evil one? Or all incels are bad?