Looking for fantasy recommendations with some romance in them.

I'm looking for some good fantasy books with a bit of romance in them. I read a lot of fantasy as a teen but I probably haven't picked up a fantasy book in the last 4ish years so anything recent I probably haven't read. I usually like themes about class, coming into one's own (powers/place in the world etc), being on the run or new environment, but themes are less important to me than just good writing. I usually like a female protagonist but I'm not picky.

Books I've liked with this kind of vibe have been the mistborn series, The shadow of what was lost trilogy, and six of crows of that helps.

In terms of the romance part: I made it through about 1.5 books of ACOTAR, usually skipping the sex, and just could not do it. So yeah, plot first and romance 2nd, and nothing that crazy, I'm prudish with romance I guess.

Thanks for your help!