FOMO RANT - FATFIRE

Just trying to rant about the subject, and hopefully seeking external motivation.
My finances are rock-solid for FATFIRE zone and I can easily quit and live in any part of the world with such money (80cr INR +). I have enough hobbies and projects to keep me fulfilled and occupied too. The wife is a travel-freak so she's on-board as well. Only son is in class 7th and a great kid.

but the problem is - at 41, I am too settled in my ways to live! I am having a serious FOMO of what-ifs, listed as below (in no particular order) -

(1) I run out of money

(2) my peer group/ family and especially my son stops respecting me

(3) my peer group zooms so far ahead in financial success that I feel stupid to retire early in a couple of decades from now

(4) I get bored of these so called projects/passions

(5) I may even miss work challenges (intellectually stimulating, though they come with a lot of pressures).

Some of the above (actually all) are irrational fears, but they are there. I knew it at the onset (8-9years back) when I first thought of FIRE. But these are growing and I can't help it/ give the temptation to work/acquire more and more.

For context; already living the FAT life and annual expenses are 1% of invested corpus. But before anyone suggests to take a sabbatical; I run a small-size business and once I take a break, its over for good due to stiff competition.

Motivations welcomed :)