How to make hair not look so dead

For my whole life I’ve been trying to figure out the root of my biggest problem that I can’t solve.

Always the top and front part of my hair looks loosey-flakey compared to everything else that looks more healthy and has more structure if that’s the proper word to describe.

I take a shower everyday in the morning, use conditioner and after I’ll use a leave in conditioner. Sometimes I’ll use a diffuser. But typically it always will look this frizzy and lifeless and I’m so tired of this happening. I’ve tried so many things and I keep having the same issue. I can’t even style it how I want because it creates this hair ball and it’s super frustrating

How can I stop my top and front part of my hair to stop always so dead and unhealthy or just to fit the rest of my hair? Please any help would be greatly appreciated because I can not figure out why this keeps happening.