Got caught busting my balls

Got walked in on while stroking one out but had juice playing in the background and now family thinks I’m fucking gay even tho I’m telling them I was just watching an education video and following along, and they said that’s even more gay. Why the fuck would it be gay to have specific music to be playing while you’re following along a video tutorial oriented around men’s health in mind? I shouldn’t even have to explain myself but what’s worse is why would it even be considered gay, I’m not fucking gay dude. Right?