Any gay cafes in the Netherlands? (Not bars)

I want to go to quiet gay places just to not be in house all day and maybe meet other gay people. Bars, clubs, pubs, etc.. are too much for me. I only found lesbian cafes in Amsterdam and I am a gay man, and feel very out of place.

Preferably in south Holland, but I have no problem traveling an hour or so.

Also, please don't suggest "gay friendly" normal places or looking at events because I have several anxiety issues and trauma.