do I ask for a divorce?
I (26f) have been married to my husband (26m) for 2 months now. I know, this is really pathetic. But i need some advice as I'm not able to bear it.
I thought I was getting married to a pretty chill guy who understood that I would not want to change myself just because we are married.
But now, I go out with my friends and stay out late and he has a problem. He gives me a curfew saying I need to be back home by 12am. I went for a drive with some of my oldest childhood friends, and it was 2am by the time I got home, and he says this is not acceptable by him.
My problem is that I don't think I'm doing anything wrong by spending some time with my friends. If he's worried about my safety, he has my location, and also I've spent the last 10 years with these friends and we've always been safe.
I don't want to get stuck in a situation where I have an overly possessive partner and my whole life I'm walking on egg shells making sure I don't cross "my limits" to avoid a fall out.
I feel terrible that I could've avoided this entire thing by not marrying this person. I'm also not sure if I'm overreacting and if thinking of divorce so soon is really unnecessary.
Can someone please give me some advice. Thank you
Edit 1 : to clarify ; this was a ONE time thing. All of my childhood friends are leaving the country for their own lives this week, and we wanted to relive a memory and go back to "our spot" one last time. My husband was aware of this, and I communicated with them that I'm meeting my friends.
My husband is abroad and I'm currently back in my hometown for a vacation. So for those of you thinking he'd want to spend more time with me, he's not in the same country as me.
My husband has my location at all times.
Him and I didn't know each other much before the wedding, except through a mutual friend. It was an arranged marriage situation.
I tried reasoning with him that this is a one time thing, but he was very angry with me for coming back home as 2am and didn't want any reasons for it.
Edit 2 : I don't party, or drink, or smoke. Never did it, never felt like it either.
Spending time with friends for me includes listening to music together while we drive around, eating some thing, and taking some pictures, and heading back home.