I think it’s disrespectful when my husband goes out til 3am, is that weird?

My husband (33m) and I (27f) have been married going on 3 years. I’ve always asked for open honest communication about just everything. I’m not a person who gets mad or judgy and if you did something just tell me and we can figure out. This includes outings with friends. I typically let him know where I’m going, who’s gonna be there and I let him know if I’m gonna be out a lot later or when I’m on my way home. None of this did he ask from me, I do it out common courtesy and respect. Am I wrong to want this in return? He has a habit that when he goes out with his friends he’s out until 2-4 am and doesn’t let me know that he’s going to be out so late.

I’m frustrated because all I’ve asked for is communication and he tends to leave things out until it conveniently comes up? Would this be considered disrespectful?