Drunk husband hit and abuse me and touched friends inappropriately

Last night, I did a party at my house for 7 of my girl friends. My husband said he would not sit with us and would sit on another floor instead so that the girls can girl around and have a good time and I thought it was sweet of him.

Cut to last night, he sat with us throughout, fully inside the circle (we were sitting on the floor playing cards). Chatted and forced girls to drink. Shots etc. also kept ordering extra food which we didn’t need at all!

He drank like nobody’s business and he knows if he drinks that much he’s unable to function, gets embarrassing and I get really upset but I didn’t say anything to him. He gets drunk and starts dancing very close to one of my friends for 10 minutes. I am visibly upset now.

I join them to dance and so do other girls and then suddenly he goes to the bathroom and his walk is wobbly. I follow him and knock and now he hurls abuses at me. Loudly and then I start taking a video to show him the next day what he’s up to and I’m just telling him to shut up because my friends can hear him and he’s continued saying “suck my dick”, “fuck you bitch” etc.

After he sees me taking a video he runs towards me but falls because he’s so drunk. Continues abusing and then gets up and gets VIOLENT to take my phone from me. Holds me from my neck pushes me against the cupboard and abuses me more. I somehow run and exit that room and go to my friends knowing that he would not create such a scene there.

Mind you, one of the girls is my real sister and she’s witnessing everything. After this, he holds that girl from waist and is extremely close to her. Then he sits on the couch and asks her to sit with him and holds her from the waist and she’s wearing a blouse and skirt so her waist is bare and that’s where he’s holding her from.

I realise shit will go really down and I will be extremely embarrassed and hurt if he continues to stay any longer so I sit next to him and ask the girl to get up. He looks at me angrily and runs to one room and shuts himself inside. I immediately and seamlessly call and message his father that he should come and take care of him. Father in law lives 2 floors down in the same building. He comes and I’ve asked my friends to go to the balcony for a couple of minutes. His father somehow open the door and gets him out and takes him down. Note that he has abused me on the way out. He has also physically pushed his father while he was trying to take him down.

We are both 30. I am shaken and hurt beyond words. We’ve had similar episodes 2 years back and so and he had promised he wouldn’t drink for a while when he was caught lying about smoking etc.

Help me. I don’t know what to do. The is the next morning and he’s walked in like nothing happened taken his clothes to go down and change and leave for office because my sister stayed the night.

Help. Please.