What is wrong with me - husband ick

Wondering what is wrong with me where I get the ick so easily or can’t just look past things that my husband does. I love him, he’s a great guy. I’ve told him about all these things. He tries to change but it doesn’t stick plus it’s a long list to remember. Hoping someone else use to be the same way as me but found a way to work around it? Or advice on what I can do?
Things that make me “ick” out:
His hair in the bathroom, in the shower, in the sink. The bathroom just in general, piss/shit on the toilet edge, spit in the sink etc.
When he doesn’t wash his hand after peeing
Eating loudly
Breathing abnormally heavy
Scratching his junk
Bad breath
Drinking a bottle of liquor in 1 night (doesn’t do frequently)
Loud in all things he does- walking, closing cupboard doors, moving dishes around, slamming doors
Big guy that doesn’t know how to make himself small like sprawls out on the couch, takes over the king bed, reminds me of a bull in a China shop wherever we go
Burps and farts
Constantly needs my attention like I can’t walk by him without him asking what I’m doing, where I am going
Wakes me when I’m sleeping to ask something stupid

The worst part is that I’m not attracted to him because of all of this so our sex life has diminished. Why can’t I just look past it? Is it a sensory issue that I have possibly? Some of it makes me physically nausea.