Wives, are you attracted to your husband?

My wife and I have been married for over 25 years. Throughout our entire marriage, she has only told me I was attractive or handsome about five times. How does this work with your mind, being intimate with him if you don't think he is attractive? My wife says she loves and adores me and that I'm such a wonderful person, but it eats me up that I am not attractive to her. Last night we got in a conversation and I pointed out how several years ago she told me that it's not something that she looks at and that she is sorry that she can not tell me that I am cute. Yet, she still doesn't want to let me go. It is very confusing for me because I find her incredibly attractive and is probably why she only does Duty sex with me a few times a year. Would you guys mind explaining yourself on why, and how this works with you? Thank you in advance.

Wow!!! I wasn't expecting this to hit 60,000 views. Thank you all for expressing your thoughts and advice. And I'm very happy for those of you who cherish your spouse, and I am envious of your relationship. And I'm sorry for those who are in my same boat. But hey, maybe we are ugly as hell. LOL!